Friday, July 27, 2012

Found on Facebook - Destress

A friend of mine posted a link to this on Facebook. Having lived through stressful times I could totally relate to the story - and it hits the mark. The times that I become stressful are when I am juggling too many balls in the air, or like snowballs, when the balls have become heavy and unwieldy. I hadn't factored in the time factor before. So, take a minute to read and reflect.

Which is your favorite piece of advice?

A young lady confidently walked around the room while leading and explaining stress management to an audience with a raised glass of water. Everyone knew she was going to ask the ultimate question, 'half empty or half full?'... She fooled them all .... "How heavy is this glass of water?" she inquired with a smile. Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied , "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it.
If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance. In each case it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes." She continued, "and that's the way it is with stress.

If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won't be able to carry on."

"As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again. When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden - holding stress longer and better each time practiced.

So , as early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down.

Don't carry them through the evening and into the night... Pick them up tomorrow.

1 * Accept the fact that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue!

2 * Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.

3 * Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it.

4 * Drive carefully... It's not only cars that can be recalled by their Maker..

5 * If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague

6 * If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.

7 * It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others.

8 * Never buy a car you can't push.

9 * Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won't have a leg to stand on.

10 * Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance.

11 * Since it's the early worm that gets eaten by the bird, sleep late.

12 * The second mouse gets the cheese.

13 * When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane.

14 * Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live.

16 * Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once.

17 * We could learn a lot from crayons. Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box.

18 * A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.

19 * Have an awesome day and know that someone has thought about you today.


20 *Save the earth..... It's the only planet with chocolate!*


  1. Thank you for sharing these insights. Chocolate, if for no other reason, we really do need to save this planet.

  2. Good advice and I like all those quotes. I have trouble "putting the glass down" at night. Argh. Gotta work on that. I like your busy picture too. Although, I must has been awhile since I touched a vacuum cleaner. And that was when I cleaned the tack room in my horse trailer.

  3. Great advice. I need to print this and put it on the fridge!

  4. This post is so fits my life every single day. Then when I have a free day, from the house we are building, I don't know what to do with myself. What I WANT to do, or what I NEED to do.

    Cindy Bee

  5. Good post!

    I live by these two:
    11.Since it's the early worm that gets eaten by the bird, sleep late.

    12.The second mouse gets the cheese.

    And I would change #18 to say:

    A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery when they are lost.

    That would be me! :)



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